Easier said then done. I tend to give and give until I can't anymore and the crash occurs.
It isn't pretty but it happens like clock work. If I could solve the issue you think I would but nope. I just keep doing the same thing. I forget about me.
Now your probably thinking "I thought this was about being a better wife" Well it is. When times get hard turn to your spouse. When you feel like you can't give anymore, give yourself what you need the most... your spouse.
At times we feel like all those around us are constantly demanding our attention. I know it overwhelms me. By remembering we aren't alone we can turn to our partner in crime and find great happiness.
Here are some suggestion:
- Think about them.
- Make sure they are positive thoughts
- Don't share your problems with those closest to you. If you need to talk to someone... try someone you don't know. They will be more impartial.
- Tell them you love them.
- And show them you love them.
By doing these things I have found that I am happier. I can deal with my day to day struggles better because I don't feel alone.
Thanks for reading!